I grew up in a big family and our mother worked during the
day and at night she went to college. A
true example of dedication and passion for what she believed in. So, you can imagine that there was little
time for her to investigate what each of her 4 sons were passionate about. We
all went to baseball summer league, boy scouts, karate and were part of the swimming
team. I did not enjoy most of them but
staying at home in front of the television was not an option. My mom believed in hard work and if you were
not good at something, hard work would pay off.
And it did but I did not enjoy it. As I got older and started making my
own decisions, I did not pursue any of those activities. I only realised years
later the benefits of my mother pushing us to be dedicated to everything we
Continue reading “Work on strengths or weaknesses?… A story about finding your passion.”
How I discovered three great principles in a challenging year with the help of my Coach: Intent is Everything; Play to Your Strengths; Know Yourself.
With the end of the year approaching fast, I’m sure I’m not alone in taking a moment to reflect on the past 12 months and what it’s meant to me both personally and professionally.
Don’t worry, this isn’t one of those terrible articles titled “10 things you need to do to be a success in 2019” but I did want to share something that’s helped me, with the hope that it will help you too.
By way of context, 2018 has been a challenge. I work in a traditional industry, that faces a severe skills shortage and, if I’m honest, a distinct lack of imagination about how to solve it.
My own organisation is not without its frustrations, and our own attempts to be creative and innovative in the way that we approach the development of our people – I’m Head of Learning – can often feel like they just aren’t impacting quickly enough. It always feels like we should be doing more.
And on a personal note, earlier in the year my mum was diagnosed, quite unexpectedly, with an aggressive form of brain cancer. After a short illness she passed away in May.
As the year continued I think it’s fair to say that all the above started to take a toll. I began to “leak” as a result of my frustrations.
So, what to do? Well, as someone fortunate enough to have both a coach and a mentor, I thought I should practice what I preach and look for some support. Continue reading “My 2018 Coaching Journey: Finding the Path to Me”